Changing, growing, and working on yourself I consider really important. Not just accepting everything as it is but thinking about how you want your life and yourself to be and creating this life and this person. But is there a… read more
change, growth, habits
I hear people saying all the time that change and changing is mostly very difficult, especially when it comes to habits. A lot of the times these are older people claiming that because they have lived so long having certain… read more
negativity
For a long time, I’ve been noticing how negative most people are. People seem to have forgotten how to talk and focus on the good things in life. That’s almost not surprising because nowadays all we get informed about in… read more
a different perspective
I love my son. I really do. I couldn’t imagine a life without him (or could I?). But sometimes, just before falling asleep, I ask myself if I would have made a different decision if I had known how I… read more
o trabalho de hoje
Nos últimos dias pensei muito sobre o tema do trabalho de hoje, também em comparação com o emprego do passado. Eu sempre estava criticando a minha mãe, porque sentia que ela nunca tinha tempo para os seus filhos por causa… read more
first love(s)
I keep asking myself what or rather who my first love was. Intuitively I would say that it was my first partner, the first person I had a relationship with and shared intimacy. But then I keep thinking: There have… read more
creating the life we desire
When we are born everything is new. We are overwhelmed by all the colors, images, and sounds of the world we arrived in. Overpowered by all the new exciting things. Everything is possible. Everything is imaginable. But as we grow… read more
why and how we learn
When we are young we have to learn in order to start becoming more like those around us, meaning, we have to learn how to walk, how to talk, eat, etc. These are necessary acquirements. As we grow older and… read more
kids – do I want kids? why do people want children?
“Do I want kids? “ I ask myself sometimes. 2 Years ago I would have said: absolutely. But now I am not so sure anymore. For so many people, including my mom, their kids become their only hobby. They don’t… read more
attachments, family and friends
In the last year, I started to believe that attachments are not beneficial for one’s personal freedom, experiences, and development. My mom used to tell me that family is really important because family always sticks together. I never understood that…. read more
